I’m not by any means saying I’m perfect in this department but why do people insist on not using their brains.
Engage brain before speaking. It’s quite simple. A quick little thought something along the lines of “is what I’m about to saying going to upset the person I’m saying it to?” If the answer is yes then why the hell is it said?
I didn’t want my day ruined but oh look, there you go, ruining it.